Love my job, but I’m glad it’s Friday.
It looks as if it’s finally warming up, too.
I stumbled across this funny (and quirky) little article from an Indianapolis magician.
My two cats kissed this morning. Makes me so happy to see them get along.
Pinky Chai Reviews It All — The Goods, The Foods, The Moods..and more
Love my job, but I’m glad it’s Friday.
It looks as if it’s finally warming up, too.
I stumbled across this funny (and quirky) little article from an Indianapolis magician.
My two cats kissed this morning. Makes me so happy to see them get along.
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There are so many things I’m grateful for.
Some of them tend to be repeated every day,
like my amazing boyfriend and best friend. He’s 8 or 9 inches shorter than I am,
but he inspires me to reach new heights (I’m a couple inches taller than 6′, btw).
I also am lucky enough to have the best father in the world. He’s wonderful in so many ways, and I should stop this sentence here before this becomes a book.
Then there’s my house. Yes, it has its loud, creaky floors, drafty windows and doors,
but it’s so much better than the house before it–in so many ways.
The historical area in the city, the higher ceilings (my boyfriend says his thoughts tend to go up only as high as the ceiling he’s under), and heating/air conditioning.
When cataloging all the many things I’m grateful for, there tends to be repetition. Because of the repetition, I sometimes find myself just going through the motions.
Now I add a new constraint. I like this kind of constraint, because in a way, it’s liberating. It can sometimes make it easier to think of stuff when the question is more specific. You say,
“What are some things that happened this week that I’m grateful for?”
This ensures that your gratitude list is fresh.
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It’s been a long time since I’ve written here, and of course a lot of life has happened.
That’s probably the reason picking up where I left off feels so daunting now.
There have been new places, and new faces.
I’ll get into that more in forthcoming entries.
I just felt like starting again.
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PINKY’S TOP PICK “MOST STELLAR STATE”
So here’s the skinny, my peaches —
I know, I’m definitely a southern girl at heart (born and raised), so my obvious choice for “favorite US state” is the beautiful state of Georgia. If you’ve never been to the peach state – it’s absolutely remarkable.
PINKY’S TOP PICK ATTRACTIONS IN GEORGIA
*Georgia (especially, Atlanta) is the new Hollywood.
*The weather is beautiful.
*It’s full of friendly people too, if you like that sort of thing. This girl DOES.
*It’s even fun to drive in the peach state for so many reasons.
FUN THINGS TO DO
*Georgia Aquarium
*Stone Mountain
*The World of Coca-Cola
*Centennial Olympic Park
*Atlanta Botanical Garden
*Six Flags Over Georgia
This is a great link of just 30 of the amazing things about Georgia (not your typical tourist spots). http://www.movoto.com/blog/opinions/photos-of-georgia/
THE NEW HOLLYWOOD
Atlanta and surrounding areas all throughout Georgia are catching major attention, in terms of filming locations. Of course, if you watch the Bravo Network – you’re familiar with The Real Housewives of Atlanta and Married to Medicine, both filmed primarily, in Atlanta. But if you don’t, there’s a more comprehensive list here or I’ve made a quick list of some of the shows and movies that were filmed here:
Fried Green Tomatoes, The Hunger Games, Fast and Furious (most recent), The Walking Dead, Driving Miss Daisy, Family Feud (Dad, E, Lyn, if y’all come down here together — we’re ALL signing up for this), Party Down South (season two) and Jack Black has been filming for the new Goosebumps movie just a short drive away from where I live…I could go on and on, but I won’t. This is supposed to be the short list, y’all.
(Most of these I just recently discovered were filmed in Georgia.)
Here are some pictures from a recent trip to Juliette, GA, the primary filming location for “Fried Green Tomatoes” — not far from where I live…
WEATHER
If you like nature, outdoorsy kinds of things or spending time outside — Georgia is the place to be. The weather, in my opinion is warm and pleasant. Georgia has mountainous regions, islands off the southern coast, gorgeous tall trees and pines that stay green all year. There’s so much beauty in Georgia. Honestly, what more could a nature-loving girl (or guy) ask for?
PEOPLE
The people are even super nice, to boot. In this girl’s opinion, they’re rated an ‘above average friendliness’ status over the entire US population. People are considerate, down-to-earth and helpful here. For a girl who’s starting over, this is a welcome breath of fresh air, the freshest.
DRIVING
It’s a big state. So that means more driving for this chick.
When I lived Indiana, driving was a less than pleasant experience.
Here, it’s all about the open road, country or highway, both happen to be pretty enjoyable for me.
With the exception of Atlanta where it’s “drive faster or be driven over”, which can be exhilarating, in it’s own way. My original trips to and from Atlanta were still pretty terrifying, at first. Now I’m kind of starting to dig it. 🙂
Overall, I love the state of Georgia. What’s not to love? I mean, where else can you buy…… “Peches”? 😉
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Helloo blog..again. How I’ve missed you.
I took some time off from updating my blog. But after advisement from my Dad – I’ve decided to try dipping back into the much-missed ocean of words, again.
EXPRESSIONS
The written word has always been one of my most favorite means of expression. It was something, I thought I’d always have, too. Up until about 2 months ago, I had invisible restraints keeping me still and silent for quite a while. I was living in a world of secret thoughts and fear of saying anything…but now, Pinky has gotten her voice back and is going to town…
PINKY SPEAKS OUT
Quick briefing: For the past year, my 9-year relationship had not been on the best of terms. I had fallen out of love, and I had fallen out, fast. Even though, I felt better by telling him my feelings – giving him the information I told him was, in hind sight, probably more hurtful than helpful. The truthfulness affected both of us in a very powerful and terminal way. The distance between us grew further and further, until we were both lost in a downward whirlpool. We were drowning, never to return to the surface again. But not letting go, maybe for fear of going under alone, I’m not sure. Even though we held on tightly – the loneliness we both felt was staggering. During that year-long struggle, we could always both, sense the heaviness of our relationship, which was our existence.
We had both begun to feel the effects and tried to repair the remnants of our relationship. For him, the best way to handle the situation was to keep me under his thumb, as much as possible. In my case, I felt like something was eating away at every part of me, especially my soul. I was literally, torn apart in every way. I didn’t want to stay, but couldn’t live with leaving him with nothing. His daily pleas and building anger began to break down what had once been, my very strong determination and confidence to start a new life (without him). Under a heavy burden of guilt, I stayed longer than I should have. Perhaps staying by his side had established some sort of moral victory, I’m still not sure. I do know, it almost destroyed me and drove me into a world of silence and despair. But, I’m so happy and so thankful that this story has a happy ending.
Back to the story…
Throughout all of this, I had completely lost my voice. I was afraid to talk to anyone else about it and I couldn’t talk to him. I spent many sleepless nights debating over whether I should end it and how to do it. Ultimately, it came down to my Dad (and my brother) who I am forever grateful for — they helped me to find my way out of this overwhelmingly tragic relationship.
On April 18, ’14 I left Indiana and moved to Georgia. The decision to leave was a difficult one. I had to leave everything I had known for the past 9 years behind me. When I say ‘everything’, I mean, ‘everything’. I left with a bag that held enough clothes for a 9-day trip. I left my dogs, my babies. I had no other choice. I had to look boldly in the face of my fears and doubts and all of those fun things and keep right on going. Although, the decision was not easy to make – once, I made up my mind everything else just flowed and I knew I had made the right decision.
I couldn’t be happier about moving to Georgia and making this transition. I see a very bright future ahead of me. Now, I’m looking forward. I’m spending my time growing and accomplishing my goals. I’ll save my goals/plans for a later post. 🙂 Right now, I’m seeing the world and all of its treasures through brand spankin’ new eyes — and loving every glorious detail. I couldn’t be more grateful for this re-birth and a chance for a new life.
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Pinky’s Travels Map made using this website: http://www.defocus.net/visitedstates/us-canada.html
After finding this nifty site via Stumbleupon.com (okay, it was months ago) – I realize: I have a lot of undiscovered territory. Places in the US & Canada I’d most like to visit are:
1. Prince Edward Island, Canada
2. Washington state
3. Oregon
4. Northern California
5. Texas
Thank you for reading! Fill out your map and post it here. I’d love it. 🙂
Yours Truly,
P.Chai
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In my humble opinion, Stephen King is the ultimate master of horror films. That’s why I didn’t feel it was right to combine his masterpieces with the others in Pinky Chai’s Horror, Haunts and Zombie Boo Flicks Top 25 List (posted 20Oct / 2013). So, I’m sure you’ve been waiting in breathless anticipation for it, so here it is:
Pinky’s Top 10 Stephen King Horror Flick List
# 10: The Mangler : Classic old Stephen King
# 9: Stand by Me : Love it — watch the trailer
# 8: 1408 : I think I may’ve stayed at this “motel hell” before
#7: Cujo : Most attack dogs don’t wag their tails..
#6: Carrie : A classic.
#5: Dolores Claiborne : Haunting, but great plot — it’s true, “husbands die every day”
#4: Rose Red : This movie is long, but worth it if you like a good SK scare
#3: Misery : Classic! Kathy Bates is phenomenal
#2: Creepshow 2 : Thanks for the ride, lady! Love that scene : )
#1: The Shining : Great script, great movie, great scene
If you like Stephen King, hit me up and tell me your top picks:
It’s always a good time to watch a Stephen King film, so let’s get ghoulish…
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Heaven is under our feet as
well as over our heads.
–Henry David Thoreau
Love the trees until their
leaves fall off, then encourage
them to try again next year.
-Chad Sugg
Every man has his secret sorrows
which the world knows not; and often
times we call a man cold when he is
only sad.
–Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
Nature’s first green is gold,
Her hardest hue to hold.
Her early leaf’s a flower;
But only so an hour.
Then leaf subsides to leaf.
So Eden sank to grief,
So dawn goes down to day.
Nothing gold can stay.
–Robert Frost
The best remedy for those who
are afraid, lonely or unhappy
is to go outside, somewhere
where they can be quite alone
with the heavens, nature and
God. Because only then does
one feel that all is as it should
be and that God wishes to see
people happy, amidst the
simple beauty of nature. As
longs as this exists, and it
certainly always will, I know
that then there will always be
comfort for every sorrow,
whatever the circumstances
may be. And I firmly believe
that nature brings solace in
all troubles.
–Anne Frank
Those who contemplate the
beauty of the earth find
reserves of strength that will
endure as long as life lasts.
There is something infinitely
healing in the repeated
refrains of nature — the
assurance that dawn comes
after night, and spring after
winter.
–Rachel Carson
Adopt the pace of nature: her
secret is patience.
–Ralph Waldo Emerson
Our task must be to free
ourselves… by widening our
circle of compassion to
embrace all living creatures
and the whole of nature and
it’s beauty.
–Albert Einstein
And then there are the times
when the wolves are silent
and the moon is howling.
–George Carlin
Everybody needs beauty as
well as bread, places to play
in and pray in, where nature
may heal and give strength to
body and soul.
–John Muir
I think having land and not
ruining it is the most
beautiful art that anybody
could ever want.
–Andy Warhol
Love,
Pinky
Looking for “kiddie-safe” fright flicks for your little monsters?
I think there aren’t enough “wholesome” halloween movies for kids, but here are 10 great titles to watch with your little ones. Check out Pinky’s top 10 Halloween flick picks for kids…or ‘kid’dies at heart:
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10. Tom and Jerry Halloween Hi-Jinks
9. The Witches
7. Alvin The Chipmunks Meet The Wolf Man
6. Labyrinth
3. It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown
1. Hocus Pocus
Two
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